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Sex Ed. A-Go-Go is one part ADULT sex ed. Q & A; one part go-go revue.

The brainchild of Dirty Lola, Sex Ed. A-Go-Go seeks to inspire your libido and open your mind to a world of sexual possibilities.

Meet Sam & Ash! The Shag Gals!!!

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Most people have to hide their sexy online activities from their bosses, but not me. Nope! I’m lucky enough to work for two amazing ladies who are all about you getting your sexy on and having fun while you do it.

SHAG has been keeping Brooklyn sexy since 2009. Founders Samantha and Ashley have carefully curated the boutique/ fine art gallery/ event space with sexy accouterments that all have one common theme… Making People Feel Sexy! SHAG offers an open, inviting and educated experience – we meet you where you are in your sexual journey and help you to explore further.

Meet the women who make our bangin raffle possible every month and the owners of the sexiest little sex shop that ever sexied in Brooklyn, Samantha Bard and Ashley Montgomery!!

Ashley Montgomery has been a Financial Manager and Consultant for small businesses across a wide range of industries over the past 15 years, partnering with over 50 companies in the NYC region. Ashley has always had a deep appreciation and passion for community-based art and music projects, which led her to co-founding Shag, a “sexy” lifestyle brand, with fellow Brooklynite, Samantha Bard in the fall of 2009.

Samantha Bard has an extensive educational and professional background in fine art, with eight years of experience in casting techniques, sculpture, photography. Samantha’s fine art work deals with humanity, sexuality, and gender, with an emphasis on revealing things which been concealed for far too long in our culture.  In the fall of 2009, Samantha co-founded Shag, a “sexy” lifestyle brand with fellow Brooklynite, Ashley Montgomery.

Sam and Ash will be joining the Pussy Posse on July 2nd at Otto’s Shrunken Head! Don’t miss our Kinky Tiki Luau!!!

 

 

Next Show: July 2, 2015 The Kinky Tiki Luau!!!!

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Do you like sex, go-go dancing and funny ladies with amazing cleavage? Then you should definitely join us for the next installment of Sex Ed. A Go-Go at Otto’s Shrunken Head!!!

Sex Ed. A-Go-Go is one part ADULT sex Q & A; one part go-go revue. Once a month Dirty Lola and The Pussy Posse take the stage to openly and honestly answer your anonymous questions about sex, sexuality and relationships in a fun and entertaining way. In between the sex talk we showcase some of NY’s hottest go-go and burlesque performers doing their thing.

We’re kicking off the 4th of July weekend with a bit of kinky fun!! Join Lola and the Pussy Posse at Otto’s Shrunken Head for a Kinky Tiki Luau!!! Come out and get leied! We’re going to be up to our usual shenanigans, but this time there will be demos and soooooo many prizes!! Get ready to be educated and titillated!!

This month the lovely owners of Shag Brooklyn, Sam and Ashley, will be joining the Pussy Posse along with the lovely Ooh LaLoba!! We’re going to talk about any and everything your little hearts desire!

Tickets: https://www.universe.com/SexEdAGoGo

$7 Presale

$10 At The Door

2 Drink Minimum

Make sure you have lots of singles for our giver of go-go goodness, and for our awesome raffle sponsored by SHAG Brooklyn!!!

SEAGG 006: The Halloween Show! Prostate Massage, STI real talk and the “Internet” with Lucas Brooks and Sophie Delancey – Sex Ed A Go-Go

 

Sophie Delancey of the Tell Me Something Good Podcast and the Intellectual Homo himself, Lucas Brooks aka “Lucky Charming” join the Pussy Posse for the first time and they wear costumes! Which you can’t see…. Oh well. Sorry. Lola and the double P talk about Snapchat, Dropbox, prostate massage and STI real talk. After a while you won’t even care that you can’t see everyone’s fantastic costumes.

I’m a Poly Role Model!!!

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Hello Lovelies!

I’m June’s perfectly flawed, wonderfully unique poly person in the Poly Role Models spotlight. Take a minute to learn a little bit more about my sometimes amazing, sometimes not so amazing poly life.

While you’re there check out my fellow role models, Ron Young and Tamara Pincus!!!

xxooxx

Lola

P.S. Thank you Kevin Patterson, for creating this wonderful project! I’m honored to be a part of it!

Meet This Month’s Giver of Go-Go Goodness, Mandarine Moon-Fly!!

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Mandarine Moon-Fly, daughter of the moon, is on a mission & a journey for greatness, the betterment of people & is a seeker of knowledge. Emerging from the temples of the Bee Priestess, she is a young soul with an old fighting spirit. Where most would have given up, she insists on completing the mission. With her caring disposition, hypnotizing eyes & sweet honeypot, Mandarine believes that she has the power to heal & expresses herself through dance. She will nourish your soul with her sweet nectar & sensuality but don’t take her for granted, for she has a fiery spirit & would love to ruffle your feathers every now & then. You’ll be left in a state of wonderment every time.

Don’t miss the dazzling Mandarine Moon-Fly doing her thing at Otto’s Shrunken Head on June 11th at 7:00pm!! The Pussy Posse is going to be FIERCE this month!

Meet Ericka Hart!!

 

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Ericka Hart is a Black, Queer, Sagittarius, Sex Educator, and Performer based in New York City. She has taught sex education to elementary youth and to adults across New York City. The catalyst of her work in sex education was her service as a Peace Corps volunteer in Ethiopia. Her passions include but are not limited to queer communities of color, cliteracy, anal-cy, travel, and Whitney Houston.

You’ll have a chance to pick Ericka’s big beautiful brain when she joins the Pussy Posse and Dirty Lola at Otto’s Shrunken Head on June 11th! 

Next Show: June 11 2015, 9:00pm @ Otto’s Shrunken Head

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Do you like sex, go-go dancing and funny ladies with amazing cleavage? Then you should definitely join us for the next installment of Sex Ed. A Go-Go at Otto’s Shrunken Head!!!

Sex Ed. A-Go-Go is one part ADULT sex Q & A; one part go-go revue. Once a month Dirty Lola and The Pussy Posse take the stage to openly and honestly answer your anonymous questions about sex, sexuality and relationships in a fun and entertaining way. In between the sex talk we showcase some of NY’s hottest go-go and burlesque performers doing their thing.

We’re back in action and ready to go!! Join us at our new home, Otto’s Shrunken Head, and get ready to be educated and titillated by Dirty Lola and the Pussy Posse!!

This month Ericka Hart will be joining the Pussy Posse along with the lovely Mandarine Moon-Fly as our diva of the shimmy and shake!! We’re going to talk about any and everything your little hearts ( or loins) desire!!

Tickets: Here

$7 Presale

$10 At The Door

2 Drink Minimum

Make sure you have lots of singles for our giver of go-go goodness, and for our awesome raffle sponsored by SHAG Brooklyn!!!

May is National Masturbation Month!

These are a few of my favorite things! From Left: Tantus Hoss, Hitachi Magic Wand, Njoy Pure Wand

May is national masturbation month!! Take this time to treat yourself to something nice, like an orgasm or six. Put on some Aqua Lung, light a few candles,break out your favorite toys, and practice a little self lovin. Go ahead! It’s good for you!!! 

xoxoxo

Lola

P.S. It’s okay if solo sex isn’t your thing. It isn’t easy for everyone and that’s okay. You’re not broken. You’re not alone.  Have qustions? Ask away! Lola@SexEdAGoGo.com

The Magic of Smutalingus

D Hubs and I putting Smutalingus to the test.
D Hubs and I putting Smutalingus to the test.

Smutalingus:

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n. The act of reading smut to one self or aloud while receiving cunnilingus.

Cunnilingus was never my favorite sex act. Nope. It just wasn’t. Over the years many of my partners have tried to change my mind, both men and women, but to no avail. I always felt so awkward just laying there. I never knew what to do with my hands, and honestly I would get bored. It was just too hard to focus on the pleasure I was receiving while feeling so awkward.

That all changed a couple of weeks ago when a Twitter friend suggested I try reading a smutty story while being orally pleasured. It made perfect sense! A sexy distraction that occupied my hands AND my brain……. Genius! So I asked D. Hubs if he wanted to give it a try. I was worried he’d be insulted by the whole idea, but he was actually excited to give it a try. I love that man.

At first it was a little weird. It took us a minute to find a position that would be comfortable for both of us once we realized that the book would block Hubs view. After a lot of shifting and a  fit of giggles we were off. The awkwardness melted away as soon as I started reading. For the first time ever I was enjoying receiving oral sex. Reading a sexy story while my husband happily explored my pussy was and is one of the sexiest things I’ve ever tried.

I still don’t enjoy cunnilingus, but I LOVE smutalingus. It was a total game changer for me. I have another sexy tool in my tool box that I’m excited to try it with other partners, and one less sex thing to feel awkward about. YAY for less awkwardness around sex!!

I hope this inspires some of you to keep exploring and trying new thing on your own or with a partner. Enjoy your weekend!

xoxo

Lola

*The book pictured is Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel. You can get your sexy little hands all over it over it now on Amazon!

Review: Lucas Brooks’ Cootie Catcher

Two months ago I wrote about Lucas Brooks’ one man show Cootie Catcher. I also promised a review of said show two months ago. So what took me so long???  Weeeell what happened was……. I missed not one but TWO chances to see the show during its New York run. Luckily, Lucas brought a stripped down abbreviated version to Catalyst Con East, and I made sure I was front row center.

Before beginning the show, Lucas apologized for the lack of music and mini dance breaks (cut due to time constraints) which I was sad to be missing out on, but I’ll tell you now, those things would have only served to make an awesome performance even more so. Even in its stripped down form, Cootie Catcher was thought provoking and engaging. Lucas shares his extensive sex life and his inevitable brushes with STIs with a wink and an impish smile. Using his handy dandy “cootie catcher”, the origami fortune teller we played with as kids, and a little audience participation, he sets up each tale of sex, suspicion, and trips to the clinic. His stories touch on things that many of us have gone through, such as the shame that surrounds having or fearing you have an STI or dealing with ones sexual partner or partners once you’ve received or sometimes not received the dreaded call. They remind us that STIs are like any other illness. Something we all need to remember.

Lucas Brooks entertains and educates while working to remove the stigma that surrounds STIs one story at a time. If you are lucky enough to be in one of the towns Cootie Catcher will be visiting this summer (see below), don’t miss your chance to see an amazing show. If you can’t make it out to a show but want to support Lucas’ amazing work check out his tour fund raiser on Fund What You Can.

Cootie Catcher Tour Schedule

May 13-26:

Orlando International Fringe Festival

June 1-12:
Festival St-Ambroise Fringe de Montreal/Montreal Fringe Festival

July 1-12: 
Toronto Fringe Festival

August 13-23:
Edmonton International Fringe Festival