It’s that time of year again! Catalyst Con East is only five days and away and I am beyond ready. Twice a year I get to submerge myself in a sea of sex positive energy. I have the opportunity to learn from others in the sex ed community and to cross pollinate with sexologists, sex workers, writers, activists, and researchers. It’s a weekend filled with sharing information, sparking ideas, and working towards change. This year is uber special for me, because I will be speaking on a panel for the very first time!!! SQUEEEEEEE!!!!
It’s too late to buy tickets, but you’ll be able to follow all of my shenanigans and profound learning moments on Twitter. Just follow the hashtags #ccon and #cconsecret!!
Big Bad Bonita Boogie has been on the grind selling, hustlin, shaking white fokes down during her day job.
But YAAAASSS she’s back! Your Professional want it all, Wanna be Hood Chick, Everyday Cat Lady, Functioning Stoner, Boy Crazy, Happy Hunter. New York City’s #1 Divorced Diva is bringing her crazy ass to Dirty Lola’s Sex-Ed A Go-Go on April 2nd at Otto’s Shrunken Head. Shes shaking her assets for your enjoyment… Which to Bonita means, “Go-go Get Me Money”
Do you like sex, go-go dancing and funny ladies with amazing cleavage? Then you should definitely join us for the next installment of Sex Ed. A Go-Go at Otto’s Shrunken Head!!!
Sex Ed. A-Go-Go is one part ADULT sex Q & A; one part go-go revue. Once a month Dirty Lola and The Pussy Posse take the stage to openly and honestly answer your anonymous questions about sex, sexuality and relationships in a fun and entertaining way. In between the sex talk we showcase some of NY’s hottest go-go and burlesque performers doing their thing.
We’re back in action and ready to go!! Join us at our new home, Otto’s Shrunken Head, and get ready to be educated and titillated by Dirty Lola and the Pussy Posse!!
This month Wali and The Domster of the I’m Black, He’s White Podcast will be joining the Pussy Posse along with one of our favorite givers of the shimmy and shake, Bonita Boogie!! We’re going to talk about any and everything your little hearts ( or loins) desire!!
When the incredible photographer duo Constance and Eric asked me to participate in their Sexuality Superhero project I jumped at the chance. It was a joy working with the two of them. I am honored that they asked me to participate and happy that my incessant giggling didn’t ruin the shoot. Hurrah!
New York is about to get a case of the cooties!!!! Our friend Lucas Brooks, Mr. Intellectual Homosexual himself is hitting the Fringe theater circuit hardcore this year. He’s taking his one man show Cootie Catcher on tour all across North America and it kicks off Thursday, February 19th at Frigid New York.
“In this hilarious and borderline-terrifying reflection, Lucas looks back on his many close encounters of the sexually transmissible kind. Through his naked (yet carefully wrapped) adventures, he struggles with his ability to remain sex-positive in an HIV-negative society.”
If you’re in NY don’t miss this show, I know I won’t!! If you’re lucky enough to be in the towns Cootie Catcher is hitting, keep your eye out for ticket info!
Rounding out this month’s Pussy Posse is an amazing woman I met at the Whoopee Magazine release party ( She’s the sexy centerfold in the new issue!!) Miss Brownie Pointe is a bright and shining beacon of permission for body positivity. She’s going to get her shimmy and shake on and answer your questions……. that’s if your brain is still working after seeing her doing thing.
Miss Brownie Pointe, the sweet treat you have to meet, has been enticing audiences for years. Obtaining immense pleasure from seducing a crowd with her slapstick acts and bodacious curves, Brownie found her way into the New York burlesque scene while looking for a new, body positive creative outlet. Armed with a goofball attitude and her tongue firmly planted in her cheek, Miss Pointe has found her calling… THE STAGE! When her muggle life isn’t keeping her busy, she can often be found showcasing her flair for the comedic side of performance art, with a special love for creating acts related to some of her favorite characters in pop culture including everything from Bill Murray’s infamous role in Caddyshack to the lovable stoner Travis Birkenstock in Clueless. Packing more sass, class, ASS and laughs into 4 minutes, Brownie is challenging the way her onlookers perceive sexuality and size with a demanding level of confidence and an infectious smile to boot!
Our long hiatus is almost over, and we’re kicking off the 2015 season of Sex Ed. A Go with one of my favorite sex positive peeps, the lovely Kelly Frost!!
Kelly Frost is the creator and editor of Whoopee Magazine, a bi-annual print publication with a focus on sex and sexuality based in Brooklyn, NY. As a childcare provider and soon-to-be public school teacher, her mission is to provide a safe space for body-positivity and othered individuals of all ages.
Do you like sex, go-go dancing and funny ladies with amazing cleavage? Then you should definitely join us for the next installment of Sex Ed. A Go-Go at Otto’s Shrunken Head!!! Sex Ed. A-Go-Go is one part ADULT sex Q & A; one part go-go revue. Once a month Dirty Lola and The Pussy Posse take the stage to openly and honestly answer your anonymous questions about sex, sexuality and relationships in a fun and entertaining way. In between the sex talk we showcase some of NY’s hottest go-go and burlesque performers doing their thing.
We’re back from our winter hibernation and we have a new home! This will be our very first show of 2015!!! We’re going to celebrate by doing what we do best, so get ready to be educated and titillated by Dirty Lola and the Pussy Posse!!
This month’s Pussy Posse special guest is the creator and editor of Whoopee Magazine, Kelly Frost!!! We’re going to talk about EVERYTHING and ANYTHING your sexy little hearts (and loins) desire!!
Otto’s Shrunken Head
538 East 14th Street, New York, NY 10009
$10 At The Door
2 Drink Minimum
Make sure you have lots of singles for our giver of go-go goodness, the amazing Miss Brownie Pointe, and for our awesome raffle sponsored by SHAG Brooklyn!!!
Last year, while searching for gigs on Craigslist I happened upon a call for submissions to a new sex positive zine called Whoopee Magazine. I answered the call and I made a friend.
Whoopee Magazine, created and edited by the fantastic Kelly Frost, is a print publication celebrating and investigating relationships, gender, sex, and sexuality. It’s an awesome piece of sex positive sunshine and you should check it out. Not just because I love Kelly, but because Whoopee is another beautiful voice in the sex positive choir and it needs our support.
Issue #2 of the bi-annual zine is out now and available on Etsy!! Don’t miss my article on nipple banding!!