Home » Blog

Meet This Month’s Diva of the Shimmy and Shake: Sweet Lorraine



Sweet Lorraine and I go back a looooong way. She gave me my first taste of the stage way back when I hosted her burlesque shows, and she has been one of my biggest cheerleaders. I am beyond lucky to have someone so talented and amazing in my corner and I love being able to share her with the rest of the world whenever I can. You won’t want to miss this woman shaking her thang across the stage, nor will you want to miss what she has to say about all things sexy.

Sweet Lorraine is the creator and producer of Shades of Burlesque, New York City’s only all Black burlesque revue!  She has been coined the “Grace Jones of Burlesque” due to her Fierce and Sensual burlesque performances!  She has performed all over the U.S. as a solo performer, as well as a featured dancer with The Sweet Spot, a touring POPular Erotica show.  She is also a former member of Brown Girls Burlesque, a New York City based troupe that highlights performers of color.  Sweet Lorraine is absolutely captivating on stage and always a crowd pleaser!  Find out where she’ll be shimmying next at SweetLorraineBurlesque.Weebly.com.

Catch Sweet Lorraine and the rest of the Pussy Posse at Sex Ed. A Go-Go on May 7th at Otto’s Shrunken Head. Grab your tickets HERE.

Meet Rebecca Hiles AKA The Frisky Fairy

2014-9-15 Becca (5) high res

I briefly met Rebecca last year at Catalyst Con East. That brief meeting led to us rooming together at Catalyst Con West where we became instant BFFs. Seriously. After two hours together people were asking us how long we’ve been friends. That’s how well we clicked. She’s fucking awesome and I’m SUPER happy that I get to share her with all of you!!

Rebecca Hiles is a dating, relationship, and sexual wellness coach called The Frisky Fairy. She is a writer who addresses issues of polyamory, cancer, sex education, and sex toys. She is a regular contributor to Sexpert.com, and has contributed to xoJane.com discussing her life as a polyamorous cancer patient, among other things. She is a member of the Poly Leadership Network, and is certified as a sex educator through Planned Parenthood League of Massachusetts. She was voted one of the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2014. She is currently a student of Dr. Ava Cadell’s Loveology University. She has spoken at CatalystCon West, The ManDATE 2014 Conference, and CatalystCon East, and will be speaking at Atlanta Poly Weekend, Rocky Mountain Poly Living, Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, and InfinityCon in 2015.

Come out and meet Rebecca and the rest of the Pussy Posse at Sex Ed. A Go-Go’s May 7th show!!!  Grab your tickets HERE!

Meet The Domster and Wali!

The Domster
The Domster



This month we have a not one but TWO special guests joining the Pussy Posse on stage! I met these guys back in December when I was a guest on their now  late podcast, I’m Black, He’s White. We had an awesome time discussing polyamory and extracurricular sex so it made perfect sense to have them join us on stage.

The Domster was the co-host for the late podcast I’m Black, He’s White and is working on a new outlet for his ruminations and inane tips on life. In the meantime, you can follow him at @MeatPulse, his feed for executive reviews on metal records.

Wali is a lover of wrestling. Lover of podcasts. Lover of sex. Lover of podcasts talking about sex. In that exact order. He was also co-hosted a podcast called I’m Black, He’s White Which is STILL on iTunes.

It’s going to be a crazy night…… Don’t miss it!

The podcast may now be defunct, but it’s still alive on iTunes!! You can listen to my episode and 79 others Here.

Catalyst Con Bound!!!

It’s that time of year again! Catalyst Con East is only five days and away and I am beyond ready. Twice a year I get to submerge myself in a sea of sex positive energy. I have the opportunity to learn from others in the sex ed community and to cross pollinate with sexologists, sex workers, writers, activists, and researchers.  It’s a weekend filled with sharing information, sparking ideas, and working towards change. This year is uber special for me, because I will be speaking on a panel for the very first time!!! SQUEEEEEEE!!!!

It’s too late to buy tickets, but you’ll be able to follow all of my shenanigans and profound learning moments on Twitter. Just follow the hashtags #ccon  and #cconsecret!!

Meet This Month’s Go-Go Diva, Bonita Boogie!!

Photo Credit: Lolita Von Cake


Big Bad Bonita Boogie has been on the grind selling, hustlin, shaking white fokes down during her day job.

But YAAAASSS she’s back!
Your Professional want it all, Wanna be Hood Chick, Everyday Cat Lady, Functioning Stoner, Boy Crazy, Happy Hunter. New York City’s #1 Divorced Diva is bringing her crazy ass to Dirty Lola’s Sex-Ed A Go-Go on April 2nd at Otto’s Shrunken Head. Shes shaking her assets for your enjoyment… Which to Bonita means, “Go-go Get Me Money”

She wanted me to mention the relaunch of www.BonitaBoogie.com

Check her out!! You don’t want to miss this girl doing her thang.  #BitchForLife #KissMyThickness #NoBro

Next Show: April 2nd 2015 at Otto’s Shrunken Head



Do you like sex, go-go dancing and funny ladies with amazing cleavage? Then you should definitely join us for the next installment of Sex Ed. A Go-Go at Otto’s Shrunken Head!!!

Sex Ed. A-Go-Go is one part ADULT sex Q & A; one part go-go revue. Once a month Dirty Lola and The Pussy Posse take the stage to openly and honestly answer your anonymous questions about sex, sexuality and relationships in a fun and entertaining way. In between the sex talk we showcase some of NY’s hottest go-go and burlesque performers doing their thing.

We’re back in action and ready to go!! Join us at our new home, Otto’s Shrunken Head, and get ready to be educated and titillated by Dirty Lola and the Pussy Posse!!

This month Wali and The Domster of the I’m Black, He’s White Podcast will be joining the Pussy Posse along with one of our favorite givers of the shimmy and shake, Bonita Boogie!! We’re going to talk about any and everything your little hearts ( or loins) desire!!

Tickets: Here

$7 Presale

$10 At The Door

2 Drink Minimum

Make sure you have lots of singles for our giver of go-go goodness, and for our awesome raffle sponsored by SHAG Brooklyn!!!

I’m a Sexuality Superhero!!!


When the incredible photographer duo Constance and Eric asked me to participate in their Sexuality Superhero project I jumped at the chance. It was a joy working with the two of them. I am honored that they asked me to participate and happy that my  incessant giggling didn’t ruin the shoot. Hurrah!

You can check out the Sexuality Superheros project and other awesome posts on their tumblr page and you can see more of their work on ConstandAndEric.com

Circle Circle Dot Dot……. Cootie Catcher Is Coming To New York!

The Intellectual Homosexual himself, Lucas Brooks!!

New York is about to get a case of the cooties!!!! Our friend Lucas Brooks, Mr. Intellectual Homosexual himself is hitting the Fringe theater circuit hardcore this year. He’s taking his one man show Cootie Catcher on tour all across North America and it kicks off Thursday, February 19th at Frigid New York.

“In this hilarious and borderline-terrifying reflection, Lucas looks back on his many close encounters of the sexually transmissible kind. Through his naked (yet carefully wrapped) adventures, he struggles with his ability to remain sex-positive in an HIV-negative society.”

If you’re in NY don’t miss this show, I know I won’t!! If you’re lucky enough to be in the towns Cootie Catcher is hitting, keep your eye out for ticket info!

For New York show dates and ticket information visit FrigidNewYork.info

Stay tuned for my review!!

Meet The Delectable Miss Brownie Pointe!!

Bout Dat Sprinkle Life

Rounding out this month’s Pussy Posse is an amazing woman I met at the Whoopee Magazine release party ( She’s the sexy centerfold in the new issue!!)  Miss Brownie Pointe is a bright and shining beacon of permission for body positivity. She’s going to get her shimmy and shake on and answer your questions……. that’s if your brain is still working after seeing her doing thing.

Miss Brownie Pointe, the sweet treat you have to meet, has been enticing audiences for years. Obtaining immense pleasure from seducing a crowd with her slapstick acts and bodacious curves, Brownie found her way into the New York burlesque scene while looking for a new, body positive creative outlet. Armed with a goofball attitude and her tongue firmly planted in her cheek, Miss Pointe has found her calling… THE STAGE! When her muggle life isn’t keeping her busy, she can often be found showcasing her flair for the comedic side of performance art, with a special love for creating acts related to some of her favorite characters in pop culture including everything from Bill Murray’s infamous role in Caddyshack to the lovable stoner Travis Birkenstock in Clueless. Packing more sass, class, ASS and laughs into 4 minutes, Brownie is challenging the way her onlookers perceive sexuality and size with a demanding level of confidence and an infectious smile to boot!

Meet Kelly Frost!

Our long hiatus is almost over, and we’re kicking off the 2015 season of Sex Ed. A Go with one of my favorite sex positive peeps, the lovely Kelly Frost!!


Kelly Frost is the creator and editor of Whoopee Magazine, a bi-annual print publication with a focus on sex and sexuality based in Brooklyn, NY. As a childcare provider and soon-to-be public school teacher, her mission is to provide a safe space for body-positivity and othered individuals of all ages.

Come hang out with Kelly and the rest of the Pussy Posse on March 18th at 9:00pm at Otto’s Shrunken Head. Tickets are available on Sex Ed. A Go-Go.com.