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SEAGG 023: The Prince Show AKA The Bonus Show

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Actress and filmmaker, Hye Yun Park, and the sultry Vera Safire joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head in New York City on May 5th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

This show was originally scheduled to air in May after the death of Prince, but due to technical difficulties and wonky audio, it was delayed.  Because the quality of the audio is off we decided to air this as a bonus episode, but don’t worry the quality of the show is still right on point.

On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola, and the crew chat about their love of the one and only Prince Rogers Nelson using sexuality as the vehicle for their activism, early sexuality discoveries and adventures, internet hot vs. in person hot, and losing things in their boobs.

You can find Hye Yun Park on Twitter, @HyeHeyYun, and at www.HyeYunPark.com.

You can find Vera Safire on Twitter as @VeraSafire

Meet August’s Diva of the Shimmy and Shake, Akynos!!!

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Welcome to my world. This bio is written in the first person because, art.

 My official stage names are The Incredible, Edible, Akynos, Or MFA (MothaFuckin’ Akynos) It’s pronounced (Ah-Key-Nos). My tagline: “The Beast Of Burlesque” was given to me by performer friend Voodoo Onyx. I’m a New York raised stripper. Featured in nude magazines, music videos and adult websites since I was 17. I’m a MILF supreme, nappy hair having, 45” of ass, performance artist. You can find me taking it off in burlesque showcases across the globe but primarily on NYC stages. I’ve featured/headlined in showcases both locally and internationally. In 2009 I was the winner of the best soloist and judge’s choice award at the Boston Burlesque Expo. In the same year I was runner up for the Miss International Showgirl competition in Jamaica; (one day I will compete again). I’ve curated shows in my homeland of Jamaica at the infamous Hedonism II resort, NYC, Vegas, and DC. My last projects were Darkie, THICK and Dark. Nude. Storytellers. which makes a reappearance this October 2017. My upcoming projects are my new one-woman show “Black Pussy”, the scripted web series “Chronicles Of A Black Heaux”, and the social/whore commentary web-series “Whore Logic”, (currently on YouTube) all need your support and attention. 

 A leadership and program developer/organizer I am also a member of several different sex worker ran/lead organizations where I’ve lobbied in New York State against Condoms As Evidence and helped make recommendations on human rights policies at The UN. Some of these wonderful organizations which I hope you will support are: The Desiree AllianceThe Sex Worker Film & Arts FestivalBest Practices Policy Project,SWOP-NYCWe Are Dancers and The NJ Red Umbrella Alliance; because being a ho should be every woman’s [person’s] fundamental right. And sex work is work. Don’t debate me on that. I’ll tear you down.

 I was a dance major in high-school and had a short theater acting stint until I decided to take a long break to raise my children and deal with patriarchy. I’ve performed in, competed and won many talent competitions since I was 12. These days I’m a borough famous emerging artist who holds two college degrees, working as a massage therapist and a maid because something has to support my artistic habit. All the while I’m wagging my duster at you, screaming for the rights of every human to use their body and energy how they choose. Walk with me. -A”

See the Incredible Edible Akynos in action at SHAG After Dark on August 13th!

Meet August’s Special Guest Rebecca Hiles AKA The Frisky Fairy!!!

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One of my favorite femmes will be joining the Pussy Posse for the third time! Cause she’s that awesome!

Rebecca Hiles is a dating, relationships, and sexual wellness coach called The Frisky Fairy(www.friskyfairy.com ). She is a writer who addresses issues of polyamory, cancer, sex education, and sex toys. She has contributed to Sexpert.com, xoJane.com, and has had her writing featured on EverydayFeminism.com discussing her life as a polyamorous cancer patient, among other things.  She has spoken at CatalystCon East, West, and Midwest, Poly For All Seasons, AwesomeCon, Rocky Mountain Poly Living, Atlanta Poly Weekend, InfinityCon, The Geeky Kink Event, and Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. She is a member of the Poly Leadership Network and is certified as a sex educator through Planned Parenthood League of Massachusetts. She was voted one of the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2014 and 2015. She is a member and contributor to the Gentle Perverts Social Club   podcast. She is co-writing a book on coming out as poly (comingoutpoly.co) and you can help by submitting your coming out stories there.

Learn more about The Frisky Fairy on August 13th at SHAG After Dark! Get your tickets today!

SEAGG 022: The Polyamory Show!!


The creator of Poly Role Models, Kevin Patterson, and “The Witty Titty from the Big City”, Ravenessa,  joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head in New York City on June 2nd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew chat about their Polyamory origin stories, what annoys them about monogamy, nice ways to tell your partner their oral sex skills aren’t up to par, smutalingus, and why we hate love triangles.

We had a LOT of audience participation during this show, so you may want to pop in your headphones so you can hear the questions and comments from the audience. We definitely need another microphone for audience participation.

You can find Kevin Patterson on Twitter, @PolyRoleModels, and at polyrolemodels.tumblr.com.

You can find Ravenessa on Twitter as @Ravenessa100

SEAGG 021: The Mellow Show


The creator and editor of the indie porn mag MATH, Mackenzie, and the sensational self-proclaimed weirdo Vada James joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head in New York City on June 2nd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

Not every Sex Ed A Go-Go can be filled with YASSSS and high energy excitement. Sometimes we’re kinda quiet, but we’re still hilariously sexy and giving good show. I promise you’ll enjoy this sleepy NPR –esq version of the Pussy Posse. We had a great time whispering into our mics and professing our love to one another.

On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew chat about play party shenanigans, their favorite porn stars, how third wheels are really just the meat in your love sandwich, the weird magic that is the Womanizer, nerdy spots for sex geeks in NYC, Lola’s dream porn theater, naming your clit, and what types of porn we’d like to see on the small screen. Burger porn was pretty popular.

You can find Mackenzie on Twitter, @Math_Magazine, and at www.math-mag.com.

You can find Vada James on Twitter as @VadaJames

NEXT SHOW!!! Saturday, August 13th @ SHAG

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Come spend an evening in the back room of Williamsburg’s sexy shop for an intimate meeting of the minds and bodies.
SHAG After Dark is a monthly series of after-hours entertainment that is sometimes raunchy, sometimes quirky, sometimes funny, but ALWAYS sexy.

Join us for the launch party featuring  a special edition of Sex Ed. A Go-Go! Join Dirty Lola and her Pussy Posse for an interactive sex Q&A and go-go show. Lola and the Double P take the stage to answer your anonymous questions about sex, love, and relationships. In between the sex talk, we’ll feature one NYC’s hottest burlesque performers doing her thing.

Featuring The Frisky Fairy, Rebecca Hiles, and The Incredible, Edible, Akynos!

$10 Per Person
***Admission includes a snack & a SHAG Signature Cocktail. Very limited space available. Get your tickets early!!

Meet July’s Giver of Go-Go Goodness, Foxy Squire!!


Foxy is a long time member of the Pussy Posse. She always has some new and crazy adventure to share with us when she comes to visit. I can’t wait to hear what she’s been up to!!

After completing the burlesque class series by Defloured Productions, Foxy gathered her wits and talent to begin performing. Her first performance residence was Rivers of Honey Cabaret. Her artistic skill has been shared both nationally and internationally in London and over 15 states. In 2014, she was proud to be one of the original cast for Crimson Kitty’s FAUXVASION (NYC’s first all-female drag show) and DC’s Chocolate City Burlesque & Cabaret. As well as, she starred as Josephine Baker in J’ai Deux Amours. Her first visual art presentation was at the BitCoin Center for the Fuck A Genre Fashion Fundraiser. Fox Squire, her drag king brother debuted in NYC but he has appeared in World Famous Bob’s DRAG RACE, RockBar (NYC), The Weirdo Show (DC), Blacklist Burlesque (VA), Austin International Drag Festival (TX), and Boulet Brother’s QUEEN KONG (CA). Last year began a writing journey as F.Squire. Their first selected work, Hairstory, was published in Glitter & Grit (Lambda Literary award winner) and performed spoken word in NYC & MD. The motto is EMBRACE YOUR SPECTACLE.

Be sure to catch Foxy’s return to the Pussy Posse on Thursday, July 7th at Otto’s Shrunken Head!!

Meet July’s Special Guest, Mo Beasley!!

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Mo Beasley is a poet/actor, author, and educator. He has been dubbed The Head Coach of Erotika, for founding New York City’s longest running erotic performance series, UrbanErotika. This award- winning poet has been featured at the legendary Nuyorican Poets Café, The Blue Note, Bowery Poetry Club, Joe’s Pub, erotic reading series: Rachel Kramer Bussel’s  In the Flesh and Abiola Abrams’s Kiss & Tell Live. Since 2012, Beasley has been a featured speaker, moderator, and performer for CatalystCon East, West, and Midwest, promoting sex positive discourse and celebration for all shapes, shades, and lifestyles.

When not at the mic, Beasley teaches poetry & spoken word, theatre, and sexuality education courses/workshops to youth and adults throughout New York City. His current and past clients include Brooklyn Academy of Music (BAM), Children’s Aid Society, Medgar Evers College, NYC Department of Education, Berkeley College, Planned Parenthood, and more.

You can meet Mo and the rest of the Pussy Posse at Otto’s Shrunken Head on July 7th!

NEXT SHOW!!! Thursday, July 7th @ Otto’s Shrunken Head


Do you like sex, go-go dancing and funny ladies with amazing cleavage? Then you should definitely join us for the next installment of Sex Ed. A Go-Go at Otto’s Shrunken Head!!!

Sex Ed. A-Go-Go is one part ADULT sex Q & A; one part go-go revue. Once a month Dirty Lola and The Pussy Posse take the stage to openly and honestly answer your anonymous questions about sex, sexuality, and relationships in a fun and entertaining way. In between the sex talk we showcase some of NY’s hottest go-go and burlesque performers doing their thing.

Join us at Otto’s Shrunken Head, and get ready to be educated and titillated by Dirty Lola and the Pussy Posse!!

We’re going to talk about any and everything your little hearts ( or loins) desires!!

This month the founder of UrbanErotika, Mo Beasley will be joining the Pussy Posse along with the wondrous Foxy Squire!!! We’re going to talk about any and everything your little hearts (or loins) desires AND we’ll be kicking off Lola’s Birthmonth extravaganza!!!

$7 Early Bird (BUY TICKETS HERE )

$10 At The Door

2 Drink Minimum

Make sure you have lots of singles for our giver of go-go goodness, Foxy Squire and for our awesome raffle sponsored by SHAG Brooklyn!!!

Meet June’s Special Guest, Kevin Patterson!!


I met Kevin through Pussy Posse alumni Rebecca Hiles. At the time, he was just a cool guy working on a little project called Poly Role Models. A year later Kevin’s little project is a big deal and he’s been traveling around the country talking about race and polyamory and folks are listening. I’m so excited to have him join the Pussy Posse!

Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He’s been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up the relationship that eventually became his marriage. In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to start Poly Role Models, a blog and interview series for people sharing their real-life experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models is part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. It is a platform that highlights the diversity of our relationship structures and the people within them.

You can meet Kevin and the rest of the Pussy Posse at Otto’s Shrunken Head on June 2nd!